10 Signs Your Relationship Is Hiding Signs of Narcissism

Posted September 3Sep 3

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At first glance your relationship might seem smooth sailing with just the occasional bump. If you’re with a narcissist those bumps might actually be subtle red flags that are easy to miss.

Over time these signs can become more apparent and help you see the true nature of the relationship. Here are ten key signs to watch out for

1.Defensiveness to Criticism:

When you offer constructive feedback, they may react with hostility or dismissiveness instead of considering your perspective.

2.Lack of Admiration:

If they don’t receive praise or attention, their mood can shift quickly, sometimes turning sour or even resentful.

3.Need for Control:

When their sense of control is challenged, they might resort to manipulation or guilt-tripping.

4.Reluctance to Share the Spotlight:

They might downplay your achievements or try to outshine you whenever possible.

5.Denial of Flaws:

When confronted with their own shortcomings, they might deny reality or deflect blame.

6.Feeling Slighted or Ignored:

They may seek revenge or become passive-aggressive when they feel overlooked.

7.Envy or Sabotage:

If you’re equally or more successful, they might become envious or try to undermine you.

8.Risk to Their Image:

They might lie or distort the truth to protect their public persona.

9.Not the Center of Attention:

They can act out or become dramatic if they feel ignored.

10.Threatened Status:

If their status is challenged, they may become insecure and overcompensate.

When these signs go unrecognized over time they can slowly erode your self-esteem and leave you feeling less valued or even worthless. This can create a lasting impact that might affect future relationships as well. Please recognize these red flags early to help you protect your well-being and ensure healthier, more fulfilling connections in the future.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.