American Women Suck

This ain’t just a website relaunch—it’s a full-on resurrection of the OG heterosexual men’s movement, and we’re turning the dial up to epic. American Women Suck is back after 17 years, and we’re not just reclaiming our throne—we’re building a whole damn empire. From our iconic five-year run (2000-2005) that birthed a culture of real talk, to outlasting the “Satanists,” copycats, and spammy sellouts who tried to bury us, we’re here to remind the world who started this fire. Our mantra, “misogynists are made, not born,” isn’t just a slogan—it’s a battle cry, a truth so raw it sparked a movement and still burns bright. Paul Elam’s killer essay in 2023 echoed our gospel, but let’s be real: we were dropping that wisdom first, setting the stage for every men’s rights convo that followed. This is our legacy, and we’re about to make it louder, prouder, and wilder than ever.

Imagine the scene: back in 2003, the internet was a gritty, untamed frontier. No corporate censorship, just raw message boards buzzing with real talk. The dating game was turning into a minefield—American women, hyped by media and cultural shifts, were bringing drama, entitlement, and chaos. We said, “Not on our watch!” American Women Suck was born to give straight guys a place to vent, connect, and say, “We deserve better.” Our forums were a brotherhood—a wild, unfiltered party where thousands of dudes shared stories, roasted gold-diggers, and celebrated women who kept it real. We weren’t whining; we were rewriting the rules, proving you don’t have to swallow BS to be a man. We outlasted the weirdos, the “Satanists” who tried to twist our vibe, and the sellouts who trashed our name after the 2005 sale. Now, in 2025, we’re back, and it’s a full-on rager. The haters? Crashed and burned. The copycats? Dust in the wind. The OG movement? Stronger than ever, ready to light up the internet with a comeback that’ll make jaws drop.

Who’s Invited to the Party (and Who’s Getting Bounced)

This is the ultimate VIP bash for heterosexual men who love life, love women, and hate drama. If you’re a straight dude who’s fed up with toxic skanks and a system that screws over good guys, this is your spot. We’re not anti-women—hell no! Bisexual and heterosexual women who bring the heat, keep it real, and respect themselves? You’re the queens of this party, and we’re hyped to have you. But if you’re not a hetero guy, this ain’t your dancefloor—find another club. And INCELS? Oh, hell no. Those toxic, whining losers obsessed with “Chads” and “Stacys,” stewing in their blackpill misery? They can pound sand in the parking lot and stay far away from our vibe. We’re not about hate or self-pity—we’re about confidence, freedom, and living large. INCELS bring nothing but poison, and we’re keeping this party pure. The Anti-Defamation League and journals like Violence and Gender have called out their extremism, linking them to real-world threats like the 2014 Isla Vista shooter or the 2018 Toronto van attack. We’re not that crew. Our guys pull women just fine but choose to dodge the toxic ones. This is a celebration of strength, not a pity party.

The Mastermind’s Epic Glow-Up

Your boy’s back, and I’m living my best life, brothers! I’m deep in the art and AI game, cranking out projects like Crimson Rune and The Daytona Amulet that are straight-up fire—creative ventures so bold they’re practically screaming freedom. My days are packed with passion, purpose, and zero room for dating drama. I love women—bisexual and hetero queens who bring the good vibes—but I’m not chasing chaos or settling for less. I’m healthy as hell, dodged the COVID-19 vaccine (no mRNA nonsense here), and never caught the bug. Call it clean living or just good luck—I’m unstoppable.

Ukraine? That’s a wild chapter closed. I was engaged to a Ukrainian goddess—man, those women are next-level stunning. I was ready to buy a house, settle down, the whole deal. Then 2014’s war hit like a wrecking ball. I walked away, and it saved my ass. My buddy Russell “Texas” Bentley wasn’t so lucky. A larger-than-life American, Texas moved to Donetsk, fought for the pro-Russian side, and became a journalist. But in April 2024, Russian soldiers kidnapped, tortured, and killed him, despite him being on their team. Stories in The Nation and The Grayzone laid bare the brutal chaos of that war—no one’s safe. Texas’ death hit like a gut punch, but it proved I made the right call. Ukraine’s government, with its Bandera worship and neo-Nazi ties like the Azov Battalion, is a mess I want no part of. Check The Grayzone or X for the dirt—nationalism, corruption, and extremism run deep. I loved the woman, not the politics. Russia can sort that mess out; I’m done.

Racism’s another beast I’ve faced, mostly from Black folks—slurs, threats, the works. It’s not about playing victim; it’s about keeping it real. It’s made me cautious, but I’m tougher than ever, keeping my circle tight and my life drama-free. This comeback’s about living free, creating epic shit, and celebrating the OG movement with no apologies.

What’s Next: The Hype Train’s Just Getting Started

This ain’t just a comeback—it’s a full-on revolution. We’re relaunching American Women Suck as a digital coliseum: think blazing forums packed with real talk, memes that hit like lightning, and content that’s sharp, funny, and unapologetic. We’re cooking up AI-driven projects to amplify the vibe—maybe interactive tools to roast toxic trends or epic visuals tied to Crimson Rune and The Daytona Amulet that scream freedom. Picture live streams, podcasts, and collabs with creators who get the mission. We’re building a community where straight guys and badass women can connect, laugh, and call out the BS together. No INCELS, no drama queens, just pure, unfiltered energy.

So, what’s the next move? We’re dropping new content to make the haters quake—think viral videos, savage blog posts, and forums that feel like a 2000s throwback but with 2025 swagger. Got ideas for the relaunch? Want AI-powered art for the site or a podcast to blast our truth? Spill it—let’s make this party legendary. American Women Suck is back, and we’re about to set the internet on fire. Who’s ready to join the rager?

Healthy men must rebuke American women to save our souls and to prevent ourselves from becoming extinct. We are being assaulted daily thru television, politics, music, movies, and magazines. Corporations are brutally guiding men towards a life of hopelessness, slavery, debt and despair.

American women have willfully lost their privilege to date or marry decent men. I'm a decent man who is willing and able to fight in constructive ways. What will you do in the face of the feminist's challenge? Will you self-destruct? Will you soon be feminized to the point where you are required by law to take estrogen injections to act more feminine?

Our fight requires no bullets or bombs. Ours is a cultural exodus using discipline, self-respect, self-restraint, logic and reason as our weapons. There is no need to lay even one finger on an American woman. They should be shunned and left barren to date and marry drug users, scoundrels, diseased, abusive and dishonest men only.

If we do nothing, we lose our souls and livelihoods. If we act in meticulous, emphatic, and forthright manners...our battles will be supplely won.

Most American women are both physically and emotionally ugly. I suggest that men take trips to other parts of the world if they want to meet truly beautiful women.

Below are my suggestions on how decent men can effect cultural change in America. Keep in mind that I will make adjustments to my philosophy as I continue to fully experience life.

Your wife should home school your children

Enjoy being a spiritual man walking towards God's light each day

Get out of debt

Use the Internet to discuss current events

Take accredited college courses via the Internet

Learn to play a musical instrument, dance, or draw

Do not date or marry an American woman

Do not use illicit or psychotropic prescription drugs

Vote like your life depends on it

If you are a skilled lover, you will realize that sex is naturally more enjoyable for the woman

Show by example the rewards of honesty

Learn about sexually transmitted diseases and infection rates from around the world

Practice safe sex

Don't have kids until you are in your thirties

Get rid of that nasty pot belly

Push for a federal flat tax of 10% plus a combined 5% state and local tax

Do not treat pets like human beings

Do not cheat on your girlfriend or wife if you have agreed upon a monogamous relationship

Leave American women with nothing but dishonest and abusive men to spend their time with

Don't believe that violence is as funny or amusing as Hollywood says it is

Realize that decent men are valuable and sought after by women outside of America

Don't be embarrassed about living a honest and humble life

Accept responsibility for your actions

Legally pay for the music you download via the Internet

Don't Smoke

Don't engage in anal sex

Do not marry any woman with a tattoo

Limit or end your alcohol consumption

Realize that it's a honor and privilege to be a man

Don't tease your friends

Treat women as unique but not as your equal

Don't go without sex for long periods of time.

Start a small business in a foreign country

Register to vote as an (n) Independent

Your mind has the ability to fight most sicknesses that do not require the skills of a surgeon or certain anti-biotics

Use statistics, reason, and logistics to maneuver thru society

Limit your exposure to commercial broadcast television

Honest people can always come to understanding and agreement

Never stop dreaming of a better life for you and your family

The symmetrically balanced female form is God's most beautiful and complex piece of living artwork

Element: Woman

Discoverer: Adam

Atomic Mass: Accepted as 55kg, but known to vary from 45kg to 225kg

Occurrence: Found in large quantities in urban areas with trace elements in outlying regions

Physical Properties

Surface normally covered with film of powder and paint.

Boils at absolutely nothing, freezes for no apparent reason.

Melts if given special treatment.

Bitter if used incorrectly.

Found in various grades ranging from virgin material to common ore.

Yields to pressure if expertly applied.

Chemical Properties

Affinity to gold, silver, platinum and all precious stones.

Absorbs great quantities of expensive substances.

Explodes spontaneously without reason or warning.

Greatly increased activity when saturated with alcohol.

The most powerful money reducing agent known to man.

Common Use

Highly ornamental, especially in sports cars.

Can be a great aid to relaxation.

Can be a very effective cleaning agent.

Tests

Pure specimens turn bright pink when found in their natural state.

Turns green when placed alongside a superior specimen.

Hazards:

Highly dangerous except in experienced hands.

Illegal to possess more than one, although several can be maintained at different locations as long as specimens do not come in direct contact with each other.

Take away the women beyond the marriageable age (over 30)

Take away the fat women

Take away the ugly women

Take away the psycho Zoloft / Prozac women

Take away the raped women

Take away the women with STDs / HIV

Take away the women who can't cook

Take away the women who already have kids

You've eliminated 99.9% of the single women in this country.

"Shaming tactics." This phrase is familiar to many Men's Rights Activists. It conjures up the histrionic behavior of female detractors who refuse to argue their points with logic. Yet women are not the only ones guilty of using shaming tactics against men. Male gynocentrists use them, too.

Shaming tactics are emotional devices meant to play on a man's insecurities and shut down debate. They are meant to elicit sympathy for women and to demonize men who ask hard questions. Most, if not all, shaming tactics are basically ad hominem attacks.

Anyway, it might be helpful to categorize the major shaming tactics that are used against men whenever a discussion arises about feminism, men's issues, romance, etc. The following list contains descriptions of shaming tactics, some examples of quotes employing the tactics, and even color-coded aliases for mnemonic purposes. Enjoy.

Charge of Irascibility (Code Red)

Discussion: The target is accused of having anger management issues. Whatever negative emotions he has are assumed to be unjustifiable. Examples:

"You're bitter!"

"You need to get over your anger at women."

"You are so negative!"

Response: Anger is a legitimate emotion in the face of injustice. It is important to remember that passive acceptance of evil is not a virtue.

Charge of Cowardice (Code Yellow)

Discussion: The target is accused of having an unjustifiable fear of interaction with women. Examples:

"You need to get over your fear."

"Step up and take a chance like a man!"

"You're afraid of a strong woman!"

Response: It is important to remember that there is a difference between bravery and stupidity. The only risks that reasonable people dare to take are calculated risks. One weighs the likely costs and benefits of said risks. As it is, some men are finding out that many women fail a cost-benefit analysis.

Charge of Hypersensitivity (Code Blue) - The Crybaby Charge

Discussion: The target is accused of being hysterical or exaggerating the problems of men (i.e., he is accused of playing "Chicken Little"). Examples:

"Stop whining!"

"Get over it!"

"Suck it up like a man!"

"You guys don't have it as nearly as bad as us women!"

"You're just afraid of losing your male privileges."

"Your fragile male ego ..."

"Wow! You guys need to get a grip!"

Response: One who uses the Code Blue shaming tactic reveals a callous indifference to the humanity of men. It may be constructive to confront such an accuser and ask if a certain problem men face needs to be addressed or not ("yes" or "no"), however small it may be seem to be. If the accuser answers in the negative, it may constructive to ask why any man should care about the accuser's welfare since the favor will obviously not be returned. If the accuser claims to be unable to do anything about the said problem, one can ask the accuser why an attack is necessary against those who are doing something about it.

Charge of Puerility (Code Green) - The Peter Pan Charge

Discussion: The target is accused of being immature and/or irresponsible in some manner that reflects badly on his status as an adult male. Examples:

"Grow up!"

"You are so immature!"

"Do you live with your mother?"

"I'm not interested in boys. I'm interested in real men."

"Men are shirking their God-given responsibility to marry and bear children."

Response: It should be remembered that one's sexual history, marital status, parental status, etc. are not reliable indicators of maturity and accountability. If they were, then we would not hear of white collar crime, divorce, teen sex, unplanned pregnancies, extramarital affairs, etc.

Charge of Endangerment (Code Orange) - The Elevated Threat Charge

Discussion: The target is accused of being a menace in some undefined manner. This charge may be coupled with some attempt to censor the target. Examples:

"You guys are scary."

"You make me feel afraid."

Response: It may be constructive to point out that only bigots and tyrants are afraid of having the truth expressed to them. One may also ask why some women think they can handle leadership roles if they are so threatened by a man's legitimate freedom of expression.

Charge of Rationalization (Code Purple) - The Sour Grapes Charge

Discussion: The target is accused of explaining away his own failures and/or dissatisfaction by blaming women for his problems. Example:

"You are just bitter because you can't get laid."

Response: In this case, it must be asked if it really matters how one arrives at the truth. In other words, one may submit to the accuser, "What if the grapes really are sour?" At any rate, the Code Purple shaming tactic is an example of what is called "circumstantial ad hominem."

Charge of Fanaticism (Code Brown) - The Brown Shirts Charge

Discussion: The target is accused of subscribing to an intolerant, extremist ideology or of being devoted to an ignorant viewpoint. Examples:

"You're one of those right-wing wackos."

"You're an extremist"

"You sound like the KKK."

"... more anti-feminist zaniness"

Response: One should remember that the truth is not decided by the number of people subscribing to it. Whether or not certain ideas are "out of the mainstream" is besides the point. A correct conclusion is also not necessarily reached by embracing some middle ground between two opposing viewpoints (i.e., the logical fallacy of "False Compromise").

Charge of Unvirility (Code Lavender)

Discussion: The target's sexual orientation or masculinity is called into question. Examples:

"Are you gay?"

"I need a real man, not a sissy."

"You're such a wimp."

Response: Unless one is working for religious conservatives, it is usually of little consequence if a straight man leaves his accusers guessing about his sexual orientation.

Charge of Overgeneralization (Code Gray)

Discussion: The target is accused of making generalizations or supporting unwarranted stereotypes about women. Examples:

"I'm not like that!"

"Stop generalizing!"

"That's a sexist stereotype!"

Response: One may point out that feminists and many other women make generalizations about men. Quotations from feminists, for example, can be easily obtained to prove this point. Also, one should note that pointing to a trend is not the same as overgeneralizing. Although not all women may have a certain characteristic, a significant amount of them might.

Charge of Misogyny (Code Black)

Discussion: The target is accused of displaying some form of unwarranted malice to a particular woman or to women in general. Examples:

"You misogynist creep!"

"Why do you hate women?"

"Do you love your mother?"

"You are insensitive to the plight of women."

"You are mean-spirited."

"You view women as doormats."

"You want to roll back the rights of women!!"

"You are going to make me cry."

Response: One may ask the accuser how does a pro-male agenda become inherently anti-female (especially since feminists often claim that gains for men and women are "not a zero-sum game"). One may also ask the accuser how do they account for women who agree with the target's viewpoints. The Code Black shaming tactic often integrates the logical fallacies of "argumentum ad misericordiam" (viz., argumentation based on pity for women) and/or "argumentum in terrorem" (viz., arousing fear about what the target wants to do to women).

Charge of Instability (Code White) - The White Padded Room Charge

Discussion: The target is accused of being emotionally or mentally unstable. Examples:

"You're unstable."

"You have issues."

"You need therapy."

"Weirdo!"

Response: In response to this attack, one may point to peer-reviewed literature and then ask the accuser if the target's mental and/or emotional condition can explain the existence of valid research on the matter.

Charge of Selfishness (Code Silver)

Discussion: This attack is self-explanatory. It is a common charge hurled at men who do not want to be bothered with romantic pursuits. Examples:

"You are so materialistic."

"You are so greedy."

Response: It may be beneficial to turn the accusation back on the one pressing the charge. For instance, one may retort, "So you are saying I shouldn't spend my money on myself, but should instead spend it on a woman like you ---and you accuse me of being selfish?? Just what were you planning to do for me anyway?"

Charge of Superficiality (Code Gold) - The All-That-Glitters Charge

Discussion: The charge of superficiality is usually hurled at men with regard to their mating preferences. Examples:

"If you didn't go after bimbos, then ..."

"How can you be so shallow and turn down a single mother?"

Response: Average-looking women can be just as problematic in their behavior as beautiful, "high-maintanence" women. Regarding the shallowness of women, popular media furnishes plenty of examples where petty demands are made of men by females (viz., those notorious laundry lists of things a man should/should not do for his girlfriend or wife).

Charge of Unattractiveness (Code Tan) - The Ugly Tan Charge

Discussion: The target is accused of having no romantic potential as far as women are concerned. Examples:

"I bet you are fat and ugly."

"You can't get laid!"

"Creep!"

"Loser!"

"Have you thought about the problem being you?"

Response: This is another example of "circumstantial ad hominem." The target's romantic potential ultimately does not reflect on the merit of his arguments.

Charge of Defeatism (Code Maroon)

Discussion: This shaming tactic is akin to the Charge of Irascibility and the Charge of Cowardice in that the accuser attacks the target's negative or guarded attitude about a situation. However, the focus is not so much on the target's anger or fear, but on the target's supposed attitude of resignation. Examples:

"Stop being so negative."

"You are so cynical."

"If you refuse to have relationships with women, then you are admitting defeat."

"C'mon! Men are doers, not quitters."

Response: The charge of defeatism can be diffused by explaining that one is merely being realistic about a situation. Also, one can point out that asking men to just accept their mistreatment at the hands of women and society is the real attitude that is defeatist. Many men have not lost their resolve; many have lost their patience.

Threat of Withheld Affection (Code Pink) - The Pink Whip

Discussion: The target is admonished that his viewpoints or behavior will cause women to reject him as a mate. Examples:

"No woman will marry you with that attitude."

"Creeps like you will never get laid!"

Response: This is an example of the logical fallacy "argumentum ad baculum" (the "appeal to force"). The accuser attempts to negate the validity of a position by pointing to some undesirable circumstance that will befall anyone who takes said position. Really, the only way to deal with the "Pink Whip" is to realize that a man's happiness and worth is not based on his romantic conquests (including marriage).

The problem with modern American feminism is the inability of this political and social movement to effectively adapt to the differing expectations of American women. American women are caught in the relentlessly changing cultural expectations. Career? Family? Marriage? Independence? American feminism seems to only present one answer – career and independence at the cost of marriage, healthy relationships with men, family. Yet when an American woman’s biological urges for procreation and domesticity surface (as they almost always do), the women are caught in an ugly vice. The jaws on one side are the needs to be a wife (and possibly mother) the jaws on the other are the feminist ideals of career and independence. American women lack the cultural and emotional sophistication to deal with this.

A female friend of mine recently tried to join a local political group that seeks to be mentors to teenage girls. However, this friend of mine lacks the advanced professional credentials that this group wants. My friend works in an office during the day and works in a restaurant at night – perfectly reasonable jobs and both worthy of respect.

However, the group of women she wanted to become involved with – spearheaded by a local female TV news reporter – made it clear that the group of women mentoring young girls would be made up of CEOs, doctors, lawyers, engineers, etc. Are these the only role models for girls? Should there not be a whole bevy of options for American girls? How about a happy, stay-at-home mom or a contented wife in a childfree relationship as role models? Apparently these options are not viable for young American girls, if this group of modern feminists is to be believed.

Feminism also teaches women that men are the enemy, that we are brutish and foul creatures whose only point in life is to subjugate women with our sexual urges. So, the lesson continues, there can be no compromise with the enemy for that is losing the battle. God forbid that an American woman would want to make a man happy. That would be treasonous to the cause! When American women get together to compare notes, the peer pressure is not about happy relationships, but more about swapping stories of how they acquired the trappings of status regardless of state of their relationships. There is almost glee when women denigrate their boyfriends and husbands. “Oh, I really don’t care about making him happy, as long as have my (insert status symbol here)”.

I have an anecdote about my ex wife. I recently corresponded with her just before a hurricane was to strike where I live. She offered that I could stay with her in the event of evacuation. It was a gracious invitation. Yet, in her email she stated, “I’m sure my boyfriend won’t mind”. It was that one sentence revealed her true nature. It summarized everything that is so unappealing about American women and was a stark reminder of the reasons behind our divorce. Imagine, she invites her ex husband to stay with her but does not ask her boyfriend? Has she no respect for his feelings in this matter? That one sentence in her email is damning of her and insulting to him. I wish him luck.

The worst lessons of feminism – and the lessons that almost all American women have learned too well – is that women deserve it all without commensurate levels of sacrifice. It is the lesson that compromise is weakness. It is the lesson that they deserve affluence, the perfect family, the perfect man, and a life of entitlement without any cost to her.

Men know better. We knew that there is no “having it all”. There is no free lunch. We know that corporate success requires great sacrifice. Friends, relationships, hobbies, all play second fiddle to the climb up the corporate ladder. This we know. This we accept. We know that being an involved father usually means not getting all the promotions at work. Frustratingly, American women have not learned this lesson. So, they vent their frustrations at home and in the workplace, making for both difficult colleagues and second-rate mothers.

Feminism cannot accept that women cannot both be strong and independent while at the same time being the perpetual victim. Oh righteous feminist, which is it? Are women strong? Or are they weak? Do we hold open to door for the strong female executive? Do we not help a mother with young children by helping her with her grocery bags? You, righteous feminist, have recast the cultural rules yet you refuse to follow them. Is it any wonder why so many millions of men eschew marriage and relationships with American women? Can you not see the unintended consequences of your actions? Perhaps we are asking too much of you.

When an American man pitches woo to a foreign woman, it is a direct and bold statement that the man is not going to play the game that the American feminists so desperately want. A foreign woman is not (yet) burdened by the clash of expectations that American woman cannot cope with. A foreign woman typically has no problem with making a man happy because her culture tells her that a man’s happiness reflects well on her own success as a woman. Foreign women know that if they give love, they will receive love. They know that the unintended consequence of independence is loneliness.

The sad stereotype of the shrill, unfriendly, independent American career woman is becoming stronger and stronger. The equally repellent stereotype of the overwrought and unfriendly soccer mom shuttling her kids around while trying to keep her independence is also becoming part of our cultural landscape. The scowling American woman is all too common. It’s not men making her scowl. It’s her inability to see reality and choose appropriately that is making her scowl.

I am not angry with American women. I merely pity them. I pity them for embracing feminism without any critical thought. I pity them for making men the enemy and not loving partners. I pity them for their unsuccessful struggle with their own rules. I pity them for not understanding that life is about compromise and that compromise is not weakness.

When an American woman asks about my job, my car, my home I can only sigh in dismay. Men are not simply wallets to be looted. Nor are we all rapists and gorillas. We are complex and interesting humans who need respect and love, as do women. Pathetically, American women have been brainwashed into thinking that giving love and respecting men is somehow evil and wrong. No matter, American women can wallow in misery as much as they want. I will happily and respectfully court my Latin girlfriend and let independent and unfriendly American women enjoy their cats.

I'm glad I'm a man, you better believe...I don't live off of yogurt, diet coke, or cottage cheese.

I don't bitch to my girlfriends about the size of my breasts...I can get where I want to - north, south, east or west.

I don't get wasted after only 2 beers and when I do drink I don't end up in tears.

I won't spend hours deciding what to wear...I spend 5 minutes max fixing my hair.

I don't go around checking my reflection in everything shiny from every direction.

I'm glad I'm a man, I'm so glad I can sing...I don't have to sit around waiting for that ring.

I don't gossip about friends or stab them in the back...I don't carry our differences into the sack.

I'll never go psycho and threaten to kill you or think every guy out there's trying to steal you.

I'm rational, reasonable, and logical too, I know what the time is and I know what to do.

I honestly think its a privilege for me...to have these two balls...and stand when I pee.

Feel free to use me for immediate pleasure...I won't assume it's permanent by any measure.

I'm a man by chance and I'm thankful it's true....I'm so glad I'm a man and not a skanky American woman like you.

Porn is honest. Playboy, MetArt, Hustler, barely legal—these are upfront about their fantasy. You pay for a polished product, enjoy it, and that’s it. No strings. No promises. No manipulations. OnlyFans is something entirely different: a digital vampire that drains men psychologically, socially, and financially, leaving emptiness where desire and confidence should be. It isn’t porn—it’s a system designed to steal life, brainpower, and self-worth under the guise of intimacy.

The Vampire Metaphor: Women Who Drain Without Care

On OnlyFans, the women are vampires. Every subscription, tip, or “personalized” video is a tiny extraction of life force disguised as attention. Men believe they are connecting, flirting, even building relationships—but they are being systematically drained. These women do not know them, care for them, or ever will. Every flirty message or heart emoji is engineered to keep men hooked, financially invested, and emotionally dependent. Unlike professional adult content, where boundaries are clear and fulfillment is straightforward, OnlyFans thrives on manipulation, ambiguity, and false hope.

A man can spend tens of thousands chasing these illusions, never meeting a woman in real life, never touching, never speaking beyond the confines of the screen. That’s not fantasy. That’s extraction. And every dollar, hour, and emotional investment reinforces the psychological drain.

The Illusion of Intimacy: Digital Poison

The platform’s genius lies in pretending intimacy exists. Men receive DMs, custom content, and flirty replies, creating a fleeting dopamine hit that mimics human connection. Neuroscience tells us these variable rewards hijack the mesolimbic dopamine system—the same system exploited by gambling and social media. Men learn to associate female attention with payments and screens, not vulnerability, effort, or trust. Over time, real-world intimacy feels insufficient, while OnlyFans’ artificial validation becomes addictive.

Psychologists classify these as parasocial relationships, but OnlyFans adds a monetary layer. Emotional dependency is directly tied to financial output: $50 for a “personalized” video, $100 for a tip, $500 a month across multiple creators. Each transaction reinforces the illusion that affection can be bought, rewiring the brain and eroding the prefrontal cortex—the part responsible for impulse control, social reasoning, and empathy. Men stop pursuing real women because the risk-free, instant gratification of a screen feels safer, easier, and more “effective.”

Professional Porn vs. OnlyFans: Honesty vs. Exploitation

Contrast this with professional adult content. Platforms like MetArt, Playboy, and Hustler deliver high-quality erotic experiences without emotional manipulation. You consume, you enjoy, and it ends. There is no pretense of connection. No one tells you a smile, a flirt, or a video is “for you personally.” There is no psychological conditioning, no false hope, no addictive hook.

OnlyFans, in contrast, sells mediocrity wrapped in manipulation. Amateur content, poor lighting, repetitive posts, and the constant promise of exclusivity prey on male vulnerability. Men pay hundreds, sometimes thousands, for content that fails to arouse, fails to satisfy, and never delivers real intimacy. Meanwhile, the illusion of a relationship trains the brain to expect validation only in exchange for money, conditioning dependency, and corroding confidence.

Sexual and Social Decay

The consequences are brutal. Men addicted to OnlyFans experience:

Sexual desensitization: Real women feel inadequate compared to the scripted attention of creators.

Erectile dysfunction: Conditioned arousal to digital validation over real touch.

Distorted perceptions of women: Real women are subconsciously evaluated as transactional, unattainable, or manipulative.

Social atrophy: Hours spent messaging, scrolling, or waiting for posts replace practice in real-world interaction, dating, and confidence-building.

Emotional erosion: Self-worth tied to likes, replies, and tips instead of personal achievements or genuine relationships.

The platform doesn’t just waste time—it rewires the male psyche, producing dependence, distrust, and cynicism toward real women. Men are trapped in a cycle of seeking approval that will never arrive, hollowed out while OnlyFans thrives on their desperation.

Financial Extraction as Conditioning

Money spent on OnlyFans reinforces the psychological decay. Hundreds of dollars a month, sometimes thousands a year, aren’t just payments—they’re conditioning stimuli, linking validation and attention to spending. Men become addicted to the act of paying itself, not the content, reinforcing the brain’s reward circuitry for artificial intimacy. This turns loneliness and desire into a profit center, making emotional manipulation profitable and self-respect optional.

The Bottom Line: Men Destroyed for Profit

OnlyFans is not porn. It’s a digital vampire dressed as empowerment. Men lose money, time, confidence, and potential. They lose the ability to form real bonds, appreciate actual women, and experience authentic sexuality. The illusion of intimacy replaces messy but real relationships, conditioning the brain to crave screens and payments over touch, conversation, and mutual respect.

Meanwhile, professional porn offers honesty, artistry, and satisfaction. OnlyFans offers nothing but a slow psychological bleed, leaving men poorer, lonelier, socially inept, and sexually dissatisfied. It’s not entertainment—it’s exploitation.

Men don’t realize the damage until they are already hooked, their brains rewired, their social circuits atrophied, their desire conditioned to fantasy rather than reality. OnlyFans is a slow-acting toxin, preying on vulnerability, monetizing loneliness, and leaving the male psyche hollowed out. Every click, scroll, tip, and message strengthens the vampire, while real intimacy recedes.

OnlyFans is not sex, it is psychological predation.

13. American women are also geographically and historically challenged.

Not even a decade ago, an American woman I talked to thought that Armenia was in Africa and that the Civil War happened in the 1980s. Another thought that Canada was a state and that World War II was fought in the 19th century. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve had to correct American women on basic facts about their own country or the world. They seem to think history and geography are optional subjects, like they can just Google it later. It’s not just ignorance—it’s a lack of curiosity or pride in knowing the world they live in. Foreign women I’ve met often know more about American history than American women do, and they’re not even from here. It’s embarrassing.

14. American women are obsessed with social media and validation.

American women live for likes, followers, and clout. Their entire existence seems to revolve around posting selfies, flexing their lifestyle, and chasing validation from strangers online. I’ve seen women spend hours curating their Instagram feeds, obsessing over filters, and getting upset when a post doesn’t get enough likes. They’ll interrupt a conversation, a meal, or even a date to snap a photo for the ‘gram. It’s not about living in the moment—it’s about proving to the world they’re living. This constant need for external approval makes them shallow and disconnected from real relationships. They’re not interested in deep conversations or genuine connections; they’re too busy performing for an audience that doesn’t care.

15. American women lack femininity and grace.

Femininity isn’t just about dresses or makeup—it’s about carrying yourself with grace, warmth, and respect for others. American women, by and large, have abandoned this. They’re loud, abrasive, and often act like they’re trying to outdo men in masculinity. They curse like sailors, act entitled, and think being aggressive is empowering. I’ve met women from other countries who can be strong and independent while still exuding warmth and charm—American women seem to think those qualities are weaknesses. They’ve bought into the idea that femininity is outdated, and it shows in how they treat men, themselves, and the world around them. It’s not about being submissive; it’s about having a sense of elegance and kindness that’s sorely missing.