Posted Yesterday at 04:30 AM1 day Depression is not always audible. It doesn’t always come with sobs or spectacular outbursts. It comes with the weight of being unable to get out of bed, quietness, and blank looks at the ceiling. However, there are tiny gaps in those quiet ways to convince oneself that there is still hope. 1. Start with the smallest victory possible. Depression makes you think that nothing matters, yet you may show it untrue with only one easy deed. Get into bed. Get yourself a drink of water. In a notebook, write one phrase. They are anchors, not little objects. Each minor triumph tells your brain, “I am still moving.” 2. Re-establish Contact with the External World Isolation is depression’s best friend. It resides on your room’s silent walls. It lives on your room’s quiet walls. Shatter that habit, even if you just step out for five minutes. Breathe the wind, hear the sounds of people, and see the sky above you. The world does not end as long as you hurt; it only waits for you. 3. Modify the Things You Feed Your Mind Swiping through your phone over and over may make the pain disappear, but it won’t. Trade that habit out for information that makes you better, like immersive podcasts, encouraging music, or even a book that challenges you. What you consume quietly affects how you feel. 4. Have Someone Else Carry the Load for a Bit This is not a battle you need to engage in alone. A deceiver who says you’re a burden is sad. You are not causing problems. 5 . Everything is temporary When you are depressed, incorporate it into your mind. Morning light ultimately emerges from even the darkest nights. Hook The goal of depression is to make you forget who you are. But every little choice you make, every walk you take, every phone contact you make, and every deep breath you take builds a bridge that leads to yourself. It’s not necessary to jump across it right away. All you have to do is take one step, followed by another. There is yet hope; it is only waiting for you to try. — This post was previously published on medium.com. Love relationships? We promise to have a good one with your inbox. Subcribe to get 3x weekly dating and relationship advice. Did you know? We have 8 publications on Medium. Join us there! Hello, Love (relationships) Change Becomes You (Advice) A Parent is Born (Parenting) Equality Includes You (Social Justice) Greener Together (Environment) Shelter Me (Wellness) Modern Identities (Gender, etc.) Co-Existence (World) *** – Photo credit: Gadiel Lazcano on Unsplash The post 5 Ways to Get Out of Depression Without Giving Up appeared first on The Good Men Project. View the full article
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